Well, Kaeli and I have now met and fallen in love!
We had a restless night (Laurie and I) and were up before our 6am wake up call. We got all our things together for the day and caught the bus to our meeting at the Civil Affairs Bureau. We all lost our breaths as we pulled into the building's parking lot and trooped off the bus, just to find out that the offices had moved! Sarah, our guide, found an official who jumped on the bus and took us to their new location.
We got off the bus again, and went into an office building to wait for the babies, who hadn't arrived yet. We waited nervously in a stark room with chairs and a table and a water cooler. Then we saw another bus pull up outside, and three women whisked three bundles with black hair into the room across from us as we all stopped breathing completely!
Then we were all called in one by one to the other room to be given our daughters. I was the first one to go in, and was introduced to Kaeli , my gorgeous wide-eyed daughter. I took her into my arms and she just stared at me. We spent the next hour getting to know each other, and I am amazed (knock on wood) at how quickly we clicked - it might have been the Cheerios I was feeding her! It got to the point that I could put her down on the floor at arm's length and she would hold up her arms and toddle back into mine. We asked questions and signed papers and held our daughters, who were being so well behaved! All three had their footprints made in red ink on the adoption papers, and we had our first official family picture taken. We notarized all the papers and were thanked for adopting the girls, and were led back to the bus, with Kaeli in my arms!
Buses are not something she likes, evidently. She cried for a few moments, then burrowed her head in my shoulder and curled up tight and was quiet the rest of the bus trip back to the hotel. Kaeli and I laid down on the bed to try to nap, while Laurie went down to get lunch for us. Kaeli was not interested in laying down, so we played on the bed with the stacking cups and bounced up and down, and then she threw all the cups off the edge of the bed, took one step away from me and fell over fast asleep. She slept for about an hour, then woke up. I think she was startled, and cried for just a few seconds, then settled down again.
8 comments:
Cheryl you didn't fall in love it was there all along...congratualtions and welcome home Kaeli:-)
Cheryl, it's me, Karen Suriano. Way to go girl! I am so excited for you. Thank you for sharing these moments with us. I have been reading avidly. I cannot wait to meet her, and the new you, a mama!
"I Loved You "
-----------------------------------------------------
I loved you from the very start,
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
Our life together has just begun,
You're part of me my little one.
As mother with child, each day I grew,
My mind was filled with thoughts of you.
I'd daydream of the things we'd share,
Like late-night bottles and teddy bears.
Like first steps and skinned knees,
Like bedtime stories and ABC's.
I thought of things you'd want to know,
Like how birds fly and flowers grow.
I thought of lessons I'd need to share,
Like standing tall and playing fair.
When I first saw your precious face,
I prayed your life be touched with grace.
I thanked the angels from above,
And promised you unending love.
Each night I lay you down to sleep,
I gently kiss your head and cheek.
I count your little fingers and toes,
I memorize you eyes and nose.
I linger at your nursery door,
Awed each day I love you more.
Through misty eyes, I dim the light,
I whisper "I Love You" every night.
I loved you from the very start,
You stole my breath, embraced my heart.
As mother and child our journey's begun,
My heart's yours forever little one.
Author Unknown
from Tommy
Another day another crying fit because I have read your blog and am so incredibly happy for you.
Tim and I wait with eager anticipation to meet your new daughter.
Lisa
A million hugs and kisses for both of you! I'm visiting every day!- Now begins the "baby dance"!!! Gretchen
I didn't think I could find this blog any more exciting than when reading of your travels through China but then you wrote about holding your baby in your arms and that tops it all! No new posting from you so hope you didn't stay up all night with Kaeli crying. I love the mental image of you and Kaeli jumping on the bed together. That's bonding with joy! jerilynn
Hi,Cheryl. It is Ellen!
We all teared up reading your wonderful account of meeting Kaeli. We are so happy for you and for Kaeli, who will learn fast that she has one wonderful Mom. Tell Kaeli "Welcome" from all the Prod. Admin. We can't wait to meet her!
That's what I get for reading things backwards! I'm so happy for both of you, Cheryl! It sounds like a perfect match and I know you have so much to share. Kaeli is a lucky girl. And I know a little boy who can't wait to meet her. If for no other reason (and there are MANY) than that she can teach him how to somersault! Best of luck and all our prayers. -- Karen V
Post a Comment